No Shame, These 5 Types of Mess Are Prevalent in Most Homes — Here's How You Can Turn It Around for a Neater Space

Although these messes are extremely common, that's not to say they shouldn't be dealt with at some point, and here's how

A white living room with a cool stone fireplace, a large olive green sofa on a patterned terracotta-colored rug with a curved wood coffee table and a pair of wood side stools near a plush brown sofa seater and a potted indoor tree
A lived in home will have it's own small messes, it's inevitable.
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As much as you try, some types of mess will infiltrate your space over time. It's simply a consequence of living, and there's really no clear-cut way around it. However, that's not to say that you should let this consequential chaos evolve to the point of disruption.

Learning how to declutter your home is still my first tip for anyone who feels like they are losing control of their home. But if your home is fairly pared back and put together, and it's just the day-to-day mess that's getting to you, then let this be your guide.

With help from a couple of experts, we will discuss what the most common types of messes are and how to treat each one for a healthier living space. Starting with what might be the most frustrating of them all — countertop clutter.

1. Countertop Clutter

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The easiest clutter to encounter and unfortunately, the biggest contributor of visual overwhelm.

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There's something about countertops draped in everyday items that makes me feel slightly annoyed, so distracted, and, in turn, less productive. But, alas, that's pretty much exactly what counters are here for.

"Daily items like mail, keys, gadgets, etc., are just a few of the biggest items that tend to accumulate on countertops," says Scott Schrader, cleaning expert at CottageCare. "The remedy? Earmark a home for these items with a catch-all tray, mail sorter, or wall hook."

Then, instead of only doing a routine seasonal declutter, like a summer reset, he also recommends practicing a nightly reset routine for the counters that tend to get especially cluttered.

Scott Schrader

Scott Schrader is the Chief Marketing Officer at CottageCare, a leading home cleaning company with over 41 locations nationwide. A U.S. Army veteran, Scott joined the family business in 2006 and now oversees brand growth, digital strategy, and customer experience. In addition to leading marketing efforts, he actively supports the CottageCare Rwanda Project, a long-term humanitarian initiative focused on community development and poverty relief. His work reflects a deep commitment to service both at home and abroad.

2. Paper Overflow

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Keeping your paper, books, and magazines in order is important to the tidiness of your home.

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Another common type of mess that plagues many home offices and living rooms is paper overflow. Known to be one of the most popular under-the-radar items to declutter, it's unbelievably easy for loose paperwork to go from one stack to nine.

"Outdated receipts, school papers, and manuals can take over drawers," says Scott. "Set a clock for 10 to 15 minutes once a week to identify what to keep, what to shred, and what to recycle. Plus, transition everything you can to digital files."

Then, you can introduce some home office organization ideas for a clutter-free desk that's easy to maintain.

3. Surface Spills

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Speedy reflexive cleaning will help your surface spills be momentary mishaps rather than forever regrets.

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Next, we have surface spills and stains. But, when it comes to cleaning up this type of mess, cleaning expert Taylor Riley tells me that there's one key part of the tidying-up process to pay attention to.

"From spills on the couch to red wine on the rug, speed is everything," he says. "Blot, don’t rub, to pull out as much as possible, then use a cleaner matched to the stain type (enzymatic cleaners for organic messes like food, oxygen-based cleaners for colored drinks)."

In his house, he keeps a 'stain kit' in easy reach so he never has to waste time hunting for supplies while the stain sets in. "I recommend Folex Instant Carpet Stain Remover," he adds. "It's as powerful as the commercial-grade solutions but available to everyday consumers."

Taylor Riley

Taylor Riley is a husband, father, and dedicated entrepreneur. He is a partner at AMR US Commercial Cleaning of Maryland and co-founded a successful cleaning business, gaining hands-on experience in both residential and commercial cleaning, business management, and digital marketing. He is a member of the Building Service Contractors Association International and has been featured in publications like Entrepreneur, Forbes, Clean Biz Network, Route, and Swept.

4. Heaping Laundry

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Take this as a sign to get that laundry out of your bathroom or closet and into your washer.

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"The most popular type of mess I see is related to laundry and clothing," says Amanda Rivera, founder of Tidy Red. "Clothing tends to heap up over time and is tough to get rid of since it holds memories, too."

For this category, she recommends Marie Kondo’s KonMari method. "Take everything out of your closet and drawers and put it on a clean surface like your bed. This gives you a visual of just how many items you own. Be prepared, it’s overwhelming, but also very humbling," she adds.

"When you declutter your closet this way, you're not focusing on what to let go of — you're choosing what to keep. It becomes much easier to recognize if you truly own one little black dress, or twenty."

Amanda Rivera

Amanda Rivera is a professional organizer and the founder of Tidy Red, based in Northern New Jersey. She enjoys helping clients reclaim their homes through realistic systems that work for busy, everyday life. She understands that every client is completely different from one another, yet they share many similarities in terms of difficulty in organizing and decluttering. She's well-versed on organizing trends, clutter psychology, living with chronically disorganized people, and sustainable decluttering.

5. Digital Litter

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Looming under the screen is digital clutter that is keeping you from being your most organized self.

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Lastly, we have a truly modern type of mess — digital litter. As you move away from paper clutter and convert everything into virtual files, you will undoubtedly accumulate a gallery of folders and files.

Although this might not physically clutter your home, it is definitely a type of mess that needs seeing to. And having recently learned about the concept of digital minimalism, I've found that taking care of this virtual chaos can improve your productivity and help you feel less overwhelmed upon logging in.

You can start by ridding your phone, laptop, and even TV of any unnecessary old files that are no longer needed. And you can also transfer items you would like to save but don't need on the daily by storing them on an external hard drive.

This Portable 1TB External Hard Drive from Amazon is affordable, highly rated, and compatible with phones, computers, and gaming consoles. Plus, it's on sale right now.


And if you're finding it tough to wrangle the mess in your home, there could be a decluttering roadblock in your way. Or, perhaps you're relying on decluttering tricks that don't work. Either way, it's time to figure out the clutter hurdles standing in your way and how to move past them with confidence.

Amiya Baratan
Home Wellness Writer

Amiya is a Home Wellness Writer at Livingetc. She recently graduated with a Masters Degree in Magazine Journalism from City, University of London, and has lent her words to beauty, fashion, and health sections of lifestyle publications including Harper’s Bazaar and Women’s Health. Her experience as a research analyst has equipped her with an eye for emerging trends. When she’s off the clock, she can be found reading, listening to music, or overanalyzing her latest Co-Star update.