What Comes First, the Sofa or the Rug? Designers Say the Decision Can Make or Break a Space, but the Answer Changes With the Room

Are you looking for an accent piece or a grounding neutral? Design experts say that knowing your room can help when starting from a blank slate

Image of a grand, white living room that opens into a formal dining room. There is a teal rug on the ground with a white, modular sofa, glass coffee table, and accent chair positioned on it. There is abstract art on the walls and a grand piano in the corner.
(Image credit: Ashley Stark Home)

At some point in our lives, we have all experienced the moment when we move into an unfurnished house and are met with the demands of decorating a completely blank space. Where do you start? Certainly not with small decor items, a new room needs to nail down the larger furniture pieces to help frame the space. So, which comes first: the sofa or the rug?

In my rental apartment experience, I have always deemed the sofa as the more essential piece. However, after posing the question to interior design experts, it seems the answer is more likely to change with each room. Designers argue that choosing a rug is an essential first step, as it often defines the room's mood and sets a textural foundation that uniquely grounds a space in a way that a sofa does not. On the other hand, the sofa is often the piece you will use the most.

So while there is a debate for either side, that doesn't help the dilemma of designing your room. For that, I narrowed down the answers of interior designers for more streamlined guidance, and the verdict is in: it's easier to choose your rug first. Here's why.

Why Choosing the Rug First Tends to Be More Helpful

Image of a white living room with high ceilings and curved archways. There is a curved, white sofa positioned on a blue, white, and green striped rug. There is a coffee table in front of the sofa and a blue console table on the back wall.

The striped sofa in this living room is more of an accent piece that can be swapped in and out, therefore being a rug that was most likely added after the more neutral sofa was chosen.

(Image credit: Ashley Stark Home)

As someone with a background in the rug industry, interior designer and founder of Ashley Stark Home, Ashley Stark, says she tends to select the rug first. Why? Rugs are foundational in a space. Whether you choose a bold pattern or a texture that adds depth, a rug's placement tends to anchor the entire room.

Furthermore, "Rugs can be harder to source — finding the right pattern, texture, size, and color all have to come together, making this one of the first things I like to check off my list," explains Ashley. Sofas, on the other hand, are a bit easier to customize and come in a wider range of styles, fabrics, and colors.

When designing a space, first decide whether you want your rug to stand out as a statement or naturally support the overall design. If both pieces are neutral, it often doesn't matter as much which item you choose first. But if you’re looking for an abstract rug or statement piece, especially something with a bold pattern or hue, "I’d recommend starting with a rug," says Ashley.

Colorado-based interior designer, Leslie Dapper, adds, "In my experience, it's often easier to find a statement rug than a statement sofa. Additionally, the range of fabric options available for sofas tends to be much broader than for rugs, making it simpler to coordinate a sofa fabric with a rug."

Image of a woman in a white dress with a brown belt sitting in front of a white textile background.
Ashley Stark

Ashley Stark is the creative director of STARK and the namesake behind Ashley Stark Home. At an early age, she fell in love with the legendary carpet and textile company founded by her grandparents, which influenced her career in design. Ashley Stark Home is the natural evolution of her unique experience and her family’s venerable heritage brand.  

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Leslie Dapper

Leslie settled in Steamboat Springs in the 70's and worked with an interior design firm for almost 20 years on local and national projects. She went on to create her own firm, but ultimately joined Rumor Designs as a lead designer in 2013. Leslie loves mixing classic style with contemporary finishes, or old world finishes with contemporary art or furniture.

If you've decided to go with your rug first, the best rule of thumb is to keep the sofa a bit more neutral so it can evolve with different rug trends over time, or by season. For example, in the fall and winter, "I like to layer rugs for extra warmth, so having a neutral sofa makes it much easier to mix in new colors, textures, and patterns without throwing off the entire space," says Leslie.

At the end of the day, a rug can really set the tone and overall design direction of a room. "Whether it's an heirloom antique, a cozy braided rug, a bold contemporary piece, or a western 'Yellowstone' theme, the rug often dictates the style and feel we aim for with the sofa and other furnishings," Leslie continues.

When Should You Choose Your Sofa First?

Image of the corner of a cozy white living room. There is a traditional white sofa with decorative throw pillows and a throw blanket. In front of the sofa is a white marble coffee table and there are windows behind the sofa.

Both the sofa and rug are part of a neutral color scheme and don't compete for the attention of the room.

(Image credit: Studio AK)

Of course, there is always an exception to the rule. Anna Baraness, interior designer at Studio AK says, "Typically, the sofa will be the most used piece in the room, so we need to perfect the comfort factor, best sofa colors, and shape before anything else." The rug can come next.

Sofas are often a major investment, and the sofa type you choose needs to hold up to daily wear and tear, whereas rugs in high-traffic areas tend to take a beating. Not to mention, if you’re working with a large room, like in open-concept living room layouts, rugs that size can get expensive fast.

Interior designer, Melanie Bryant of Mississippi-based Melanie Bryant Interiors, says, "Unless we’re working with a bigger budget (and can splurge on each piece), I’ll often choose something like a natural fiber rug (jute, sisal, or seagrass) that acts more like a neutral base. It’s functional, forgiving, and easy to replace down the line."

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Anna Baraness

Anna Baraness is the founder and principal designer at Studio AK. Anna holds a Sociology and Art History degree from Guelph University and a Bachelor of Interior Design degree from Ryerson University in Toronto. Prior to founding Studio AK, Anna spent eight years working at an AD100 firm. She has experience working on luxury homes around the globe, including multiple residences throughout the UK and Europe.

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Melanie Bryant

Melanie Bryant, founder of Melanie Bryant Interiors, has over a decade of first-hand experience in new construction design and renovation. This experience, along with her time serving as both a representative for a home goods wholesaler and a stylist in a high-end furniture showroom, led her to expand her knowledge of residential design with formal training. Since creating MBI in 2013, she has worked on a variety of projects, ranging from designing newly constructed homes from the ground up to renovating and redecorating older homes. With a focus on refined classicism, Melanie curates spaces that beautifully showcase clients' unique personalities and lifestyles. 

Rugs ground a space while sofas really offer scale and comfort. Together, they define how a space feels — whether that’s cozy, modern, traditional, or functional. No matter which you end up choosing first, when done right, "they should feel like they belong together and should not feel like they’re competing for attention," says Ashley.

Now that I've hopefully helped with this debate, next up is whether to choose paint color or furnishings first.

Olivia Wolfe
Design Writer

Olivia Wolfe is a Design Writer at Livingetc. She recently graduated from University of the Arts London, London College of Communication with a Masters Degree in Arts and Lifestyle Journalism. In her previous experience, she has worked with multiple multimedia publications in both London and the United States covering a range of culture-related topics, with an expertise in art and design. At the weekends she can be found working on her oil paintings, reading, or antique shopping at one of London's many vintage markets.