How to Make Your Home Feel Calmer — 6 Designer-Approved Tricks to Dial Down the Chaos and Create a More Restorative Space
As modern life grows louder and more chaotic, our homes have never mattered more. Follow these designer tricks to turn yours into the calming and serene haven you crave
The realities of modern life seem to present chaos every day, making the need for a calming home more essential than ever. When you cross the door into your home, your space should instantly quiet the mind and soften the pace of the day. But without thoughtful interior design, the opposite can happen.
If clutter and visual noise dominate your home, it's likely having an effect on your mood (whether you realize it or not). "Visual stimulants in the home can be just as detrimental to relaxation and well-being as ingested stimulants such as caffeine," explains interiors stylist and author Joanna Thornhill. "Both can contribute to an anxious, racing mind and an inability to switch off. Yet while we are generally conscious of our caffeine consumption, we can inadvertently binge on the brain-unsettling visual stuff."
If your space lacks the serene quality that you desire, a few thoughtful design choices could completely shift the mood. From calming paint colors and soothing sinuous shapes, to cozy seating nooks and stylish storage solutions, these are the designer-approved ways to create a home that feels calmer, quieter, and infinitely more restorative.
1. Choose a Serene Color Palette
A neutral palette is a failsafe way to make your home feel calmer.
Color holds so much power inside our homes, and neutral color schemes are one of the best ways to make any space feel more calming. Earthy, natural tones are always more gentle and unobtrusive, helping to create an environment that feels quieter, calmer, and more restorative.
They're not the only tones that create a more calming home, however. If you're fond of brighter colors, consider other nature-inspired hues like blue or green. "I always view blue as a calming and serene color that is perfect for winding down at the end of the day," explains interior designer Rebecca Hughes. "It’s so calm and serene with a beautifully timeless and classical feel."
She says the same goes for muted greens. "Whisper-soft sage, for example, makes for a beautiful backdrop, creating spaces that are simultaneously relaxed and sophisticated," Rebecca notes. "The hue also serves as a connecting element from interior to exterior, making it the perfect choice to create an inviting home."
2. Opt for Curves and Soft Shapes
Sinuous shapes will always feel more soothing that harsh, jutting angles.
It might sound far-fetched, but furnishings or decor with sharp, angular edges can create a harsh and unwelcoming atmosphere in the home. If you really want to dial up the sense of calm, opt for curved, sinuous lines instead.
"Many homeowners prefer rounded shapes over more rigid forms because they feel more relaxing," explains interior designer Yvonne Harty of Harty Interiors. "I love using curved accent chairs, arched mirrors, or round tables to make a space feel inviting."
We're not simply talking about curved sofas, either (although they do remain a failsafe option). Instead, think about your wider furniture, or even the architecture of your room. Take the space above, for example. Dome lampshades, curved chair backs, and a wavy side table make for softer silhouettes that contribute to a more calming, convivial living space.
A curved accent chair can make a seating area feel calmer and more relaxing compared to a more angular option. We love the unusual silhouette of this one at Soho Home.
3. Use Soothing Scents Throughout Your Space
Calm your senses with a bunch of fragrant blooms on the dining table.
Scent has so much power over our mood, so don't overlook a relaxing home fragrance if you want your home to feel as calming as possible. "There's nothing like an inviting, delicious scent as soon as you walk into your home to make all the stressors of the day fall away," says Andrea Thompson, founder of Drea Design Services.
Place a diffuser in your entryway so that your favorite aroma greets you as soon as you walk through the door, and don't forget to layer in natural fragrance, either. Fresh flowers are a great way to make your home smell good, but you could also use essential oils, simmer pots, or fragrant herbs to scent your space. The fragrances you choose should be unique to your tastes, but jasmine, lavender, and sandalwood are widely considered the most calming.
Jo Malone's English Pear and Freesia scent is a cult favorite. Add this reed diffuser to a doorway to set a calming tone as soon as you enter the room.
Yvonne Harty is Sacramento-based interior designer specializing in curated, cozy homes for busy families. Born in Germany and precision-trained as a Lufthansa operations manager, Yvonne marries a mind for logistics with her heart-led process, blending old-world European warmth with California style. Her award-winning designs emphasize the function and flow of hardworking homes where design isn't just beautiful, but deeply lived-in and lovingly functional.
4. Make it Personal
We always feel calmest in a space that's familiar.
In order to make your home feel soothing, it has to feel like your own. An anonymous, cookie-cutter interior devoid of personality just won't have the same calming effect.
"A lot of people confuse calm with minimal, but that's not always the case," explains interior designer Jaimee Rose. "Some of the most restful spaces are where we find ourselves able to escape." Instead of stripping down your design in pursuit of a calming interior, she urges us to focus on curating spaces that feel charming, characterful, and invite us to linger.
Rebecca also emphasizes that the most relaxing spaces are ones that are personal to us, so a "calming" interior will look different to everyone. "Designing a home isn’t just about aesthetics," she says, "it’s about capturing the essence of the people who live there and creating a space that feels both beautiful and deeply personal".
London-based interior designer Rebecca Hughes has designed and completed projects throughout the UK, Central Europe, India, Malaysia and across other parts of Asia. Her interior design studio provides design services from conception to completion.
5. Layer Texture Liberally
Soft textures aren't just soothing to the touch but visually, too.
Textural design isn't just about adding variety and interest to a space; it can also help create a more calming atmosphere. Soft, comforting textiles are particularly effective (think shag rugs, velvet cushions, and chenille upholstery), but don't stop there.
Limewashed brick, woven seagrass rugs, and lacquered wood can all help create an interior that's more conducive to calm. "I often mix a variety of periods, materials, textures, and patterns to create a layered look, making a space feel like it has organically evolved over time," Rebecca explains.
Designers all agree that the key to a more calming space is combining plenty of different textures together. "I love mixing textures such as linen, natural wood, plaster finishes, wool rugs, woven wood blinds, rattan, or textured decor elements to create interest in a more subtle way," says Yvonne. "It's also a great way to add warmth when the overall color palette is neutral."
Calming textures are all about tactility, and velvet is by far one of the most soothing options available. Use it for upholstery, or add a few velvet scatter cushions to a living room that lacks the serene feeling you desire.
6. Lower Your Lighting
Soft, warm lighting immediately makes for a calmer room compared to harsh overhead lights.
As Andrea notes, bright, high-lumen lighting is the antithesis of a calm, relaxed interior. "For those spaces where you spend the most amount of time, softer yellow or amber bulbs are best," she says. "They immediately put you in a more tranquil mood, which is a great transition between the bright daytime associated with work and the darkness of sleep."
Interior designer Erin Greene is also a big supporter of warm lighting to make a space feel calmer. "If you don’t have natural light in your space, your second-best option is to find nice mood lights," she says. To make a lighting scheme feel cozy, pepper plenty of table lamps, floor lamps, and wall lights throughout your space, and avoid the dreaded "big light" as much as possible.
Pooky are top of the game when it comes to decorative lighting. For a calming accent lamp that adds personality and charm to your space, mix and match bases and patterned shade options for a design that's unique to you.
Creating a calmer home isn’t about stripping a space of personality or adhering to a minimalist aesthetic — it’s about being intentional with what you surround yourself with.
Thoughtful colors, softer silhouettes, tactile textures, and clever storage are just a few of the things people with calming living rooms always have. Apply them to the rest of your home, and you'll turn it into somewhere that feels restorative rather than overstimulating. In a world that rarely slows down, designing a home that helps you switch off has never felt more valuable.
